Why paedophilia is wrong? Ask yourself that question and try to answer it without moralist responses. This subject is very controversial and its discussion is a taboo - well, the more fun to write about it!
I am by no means an expert in little girls (or little boys, for that matter), so you can think of my words as an opinion of a deluded personality with socially unacceptable judgements.
Now, why is paedophilia wrong? A lot of studies seem to base the conclusions on the fact that child abuse results in serious psychological problems in the future. But let's take a look at it this way - what is child abuse? And how it is different from, say, rape? Not really different, i would say. But guess what - if we based our judgements about sex on rape victims' experience, wouldn't the conclusion be a little skewed?
However, no one seems to have a problem with basing conclusions on child equivalent of rape. Abuse is abuse, it brings a lot of mental problems that people deal with for years, but what does it have to do with child sex? Sex per se is not abuse. Child sex is not abuse. I know a lot of people who had sex or been exposed to sexual behaviour in childhood, and only one of them has mental problems, and that's because he was actually abused as a child.
The way i see it, the roots of this are lying in the notion of the modern society that child is something special and it needs to be taken care of. Of course we should take care of our children, but taking care of them and overprotecting them is not the same thing!
I wasn't abused as a child, but i have been watching porn since i was 6, and jerking off since i was 11 - am i some kind of monster? No, i'm perfectly normal. If anything, this experience provided me with far more open mind towards sex and sexual behaviour than most of my peers. I knew blowjob and anal sex wasn't a crime back when i was 8 years old while everyone else thinks it's something disgusting up until they are in their 20's (and some still think that giving head is a crime against humanity).
Did that make me promiscuous? Did that introduce any disorders in my sex life? Did that introduce any mental disorders? No. The "promiscuousness" part is sole responsibility of our parents (and partly, our DNA). I don't have any mental disorders. Now, naturally, when i was watching porn, i was curious about what sex is. And i surely fantasized a lot about having sex even before i got the idea of jerking off. If someone offered me to have sex (female of course) back then, i would surely agree, and i'm 100% sure that it would be a pleasant and fun experience and wouldn't damage my fragile childish mind in any way, as long as i wasn't abused e.g. no one made me have sex, suck cocks, take it up the ass or anything i wouldn't want to do.
So, i tell ya - the whole idea of child sex = child abuse is bullshit. There is a difference between sex and rape, and there is a difference between child sex and child abuse. But of course no one would ever get that because we're too busy protecting our children from violent video games, violent movies, internets and all that. We should take a look at our education instead. And also, don't forget the fucking parents - if someone is an asshole or has socially dangerous problems - in 90% times it's their fault.
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